Yes, worrying about penis size can impact your sex life right off the bat, before you’re even in the bedroom. “Men who focus on their own size can get hung up on some of the extra fat surrounding their penis since it makes it look smaller or like it won't reach an area sufficiently,” said Thomas. He also observed that if a guy’s stomach is in the way of him seeing his penis pre-insertion, he might be less sure of himself. These feelings can also affect confidence, which can affect the ability to get a fuller erection.” The result? This tension can get in a guy’s head, and result in, according to Thomas, “a lack of desire for a variety of positions, or a desire for sticking to what already works, especially for penetrative sex. This was echoed by ACS-certified sex educator Elle Chase, author of Curvy Girl Sex, who said, “Men fear ridicule and judgment too.
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That pre-occupation can sometime lead to an inability to perform in the way they would like or a tendency to avoid sex altogether.”Ĭonfidence and a willingness to experiment with different experiments and tools can go a long way in the bedroom.īoth Thomas and Chase suggested doggy style as an excellent sex position for men of size, especially because, according to Thomas, it doesn’t require as full an erection and can provide easier and deeper penetration.
He recommends having the receiving partner brace themselves against a headboard or other solid item.